Positive Parenting with NLP

Extract from one of my EBooks

WHAT IS NEURO LINGUISTIC PROGRAMMING?

Neuro is what’s going on in our head, how we think and what we think. These thoughts are based on the values and beliefs that we inherited from our parents. As we grew up, read, travelled and socialised more widely, we started to form our own beliefs and continue to form them today. However the values we inherit usually remain with us throughout our adult life.

What values and beliefs are you passing on to your children?

Linguistic is how we communicate, what we say and what we tell ourselves (that mischievous inner voice). By changing some of the words we use with our children and teenagers we can achieve what we want without shouting at them, getting stressed or becoming upset.

Programming is the results and patterns of behaviour we get from how we think and what we say. We need to focus on when we do get the results we want and understand how we got them. What was the ‘code’ or structure? We can then replicate it to get the good result again rather…